Have Fun Talking Dirty
Bedroom Dirty Talk –
You have heard people talking about bedroom dirty talk, you know the basics, a few light kisses, occasional pecks on the lips. You also know that is okay to talk dirty to your partner. So, what is the problem?
You do not know how to say the words, what to do and when? Many of us simply say no when we are asked to engage in dirty talk. We fear that there will be no return of the affection or maybe the bedroom is dirty. Sometimes, we think we are not sexy enough.
Before you engage in dirty talk with your partner, think first. Ask yourself if you feel comfortable doing it. Do you feel nervous?
What if you’re talking about intimate things? When you are enjoying a conversation, are you engaging in dirty talk or are you chatting casually? Are you really enjoying what you are doing or do you feel awkward?
If you cannot relax, and when the sexual encounter is fast approaching, consider stopping and starting again. A very important thing to remember during this phase is that you need to master the art of talking dirty. You may feel awkward but having sex without dirty talk would be a complete waste of time.
The beauty of talking dirty is that you will surely get her going, for those few minutes you will have to talk dirty to your partner. Without dirty talk, the relationship would be in trouble because of lack of sexual energy.
To really get started with dirty talk, keep in mind the fact that your goal is not just to get the girl excited. Your goal is to get her aroused and ready to have sex. What’s more, make sure you learn to enjoy the process.
There are some important tips when it comes to dirty talk. For starters, be a gentleman. You do not want to come across as a sex object, so let her feel that you can take care of her.
Never go overboard, because it may turn your girl can’t handle it. Be gentle and do not ever use rough language. She may not like it but you need to know your limits.
Also, do not forget the time. She may find this too much of a hassle. Time is a very important part of the bedroom.
Remember to take your time when talking dirty. There will be mistakes and the communication will have to be smooth, but this is a natural thing as well.